Women in the 'Hood

Women discussing Womanhood, Wifehood, Motherhood and other 'hoods.

Tuesday, March 28, 2006

Wifehood...Chapter 2

We've been enjoying a conversation about wifehood and motherhood on one of our posts, and I thought that we should give it its own post. For this post, let's just focus on wifehood. Are there ways that you encourage (or could encourage ) your man as a father and a husband? Please post them here so that we can maybe gather some new ideas to implement with our mate. :)

I've been trying to still do things that I did for my husband before the baby came. I have to admit that I let some of that romance stuff slide for a while, but I'm trying to revive it. Sometimes it's a note in the mailbox, a basket of his favorite snacks, affirming words, or just an extra kiss to let him know that I'm thinking about him. It's hard to find time or energy to sneak some of the more involved romancing in (writing notes and buying snacks), but once I get going I sure have a lot of fun doing it!

When the baby was first born (and even now) it was/is hard to find time to be with my husband. I wanted to be with him, but I knew that I only had a couple of hours before the next feeding. I realized that I needed to MAKE time to be with him instead of running off to sleep. I know that that effort definitely paid off for both of us even though we got a little less sleep.

Looking forward to your comments!

Wednesday, March 22, 2006

Motherhood~lovely times and learning times

Do you ever look at your child and think...Wow! God is amazing to have created this! Wow! I'm the one who is physically sustaining this child (ultimately God, of course)! Wow! I have a big responsibility for this life in my care!

I had a thought the other day about motherhood; its lovely times and its learning times. I'm so thankful for the times when things are going smoothly as a mom. When the learning times come, I'm not so thankful. I'm realizing that I need to take the good with the bad, and learn to trust God and be thankful for both. Especially being thankful for the blessing of health and support from others.

Thursday, March 16, 2006

Welcome to the 'Hood

Perhaps I should have a picture of Mr. Rogers here changing from his shoes and jacket into his slippers and sweater...:) I don't have a fish tank or a train to take us into the world of make believe, but I would like you to be my neighbor.

Okay...momentary lapse into stupidity...

Welcome to Women in the 'Hood-a place where women can come to share their thoughts (and recipes), ask questions (about the "hoods', theology, or Christianity), and share encouragement and advice with other women of like mind. Please remember that this is a blog all about encouraging and sharing with one another. Please refrain from comments about others that would be discouraging for them to read.